I think we may need to try find any relation between the desktop environment in use in these distros...
Ubuntu is available in various desktop environments like:
Debian 10 "buster" ships with several desktop applications and environments. Amongst others it now includes the desktop environments:
nigec, maybe you can switch from Wayland to Xorg and see what happens.
Ubuntu is available in various desktop environments like:
- Ubuntu prior to 18.04 LTS =>Unity8 desktop environment by default
- Ubuntu 18.04 LTS and newer => GNOME desktop environment by default
- Ubuntu MATE (MATE - is the continuation of GNOME 2 by a new community that was dissatisfied with GNOME 3)
- Xubuntu (XFCE - is based on GTK+ version 2),
- Kubuntu (KDE Plasma)
- Lubuntu (LXDE)
- Ubuntu Budgie (Budgie - uses GNOME technologies such as GTK+)
Debian 10 "buster" ships with several desktop applications and environments. Amongst others it now includes the desktop environments:
- Cinnamon 3.8
- GNOME 3.30 (default)
- KDE Plasma 5.14
- LXDE 0.99.2
- LXQt 0.14
- MATE 1.20
- Xfce 4.12
nigec, maybe you can switch from Wayland to Xorg and see what happens.